the 'perfect' fit bra

it just occured to me that looking for a right man is similar as looking for a right bra =P

imagine those with laces, ribbons, wired or unwired, push-ups, wonder bras, etc etc etc. there are many choices out there, and you just cannot pick one whatever seems cute, nice, or pretty. you gotta try it on first. looking how good you will be in it, how it fits your body, how good it is to support your precious breasts. lot of times the one that looks simple is the best one.

so, the right man is supposed to be:
1. he makes you comfortable
2. he supports you when you're up or down. he holds you tight yet gently in your every situation.
3. everything about him fits you just right. both of you are compatible, whether he's wired or unwired, push-ups, or whatever.
4. he makes you feel safe and secure.

like a bra, sometimes their appearance can be deceiving. as we have to try the bra first, we ought to getta know the guy first before making any judgment. are you agree with me?

during the first teen phase in my life, i have always looked for a goodlooking guy. i had crushes on those gorgeous babes. but as i am growing up... i began to be attracted on the inside. one time, i fell for a fat, chubby, short guy whom i've never thought i would ever like. why? because he was caring, he gave me attentions that made me feel special, he was so funny he made me laugh ^_^

the other time i fell for a guy with so ordinary look. nothing handsome about his face. but i was crazy about him!!! why? because he made feel safe and secure, he did things for me that made me special, he liked me whether i looked good or whenever i had a bad hair day. hehehe...

and there was time i had a crush on a guy that my friends thought unattractive. his skin was dark, sort of a mixed-race look. but i liked him. why? because he was sincere, he didn't try to be someone he's not, and kind =)

once i liked this much younger guy =P... whose eyes so small, if he laughed you couldn't see them anymore. he's not handome at all. but whenever i was down, he comforted me by singing a song he wrote while playing his guitar. he encouraged and inspired me to be the best i could be.

so for whoever out there who says and thinks i am picky about guys (that's why i'm still jomblo alias single)... YOU ARE RIGHT, DUDE! yes, i SHOULD BE PICKY about whether he can be the best 'bra' for me or not, because i will wear him for the rest of my life. i can't afford him loosing up in the middle of the road! (can you imagine your bra's hook suddenly popped out because it's too tight? true story: a girl in the mall lost her bra while she was shopping. til now, i still can't imagine how it could happen... but you see, choosing the wrong bra can bring so much troubles!)

but one thing i know i definetely am not that picky about the appearance, look, or age.
i like what i like.